THE SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP SECRETS

The rate of delays in marriages in the world today is very high. Very many singles experience delayed in marriage. Many don’t have would-be spouses. Some call off their relationships before marriage. And some people break up their relationships after official marriage engagement. Amongst the married, we also have a very rate of separation and divorce in the world today. Some countries have a divorce rate of over sixty percent divorce rate. Nigeria has a divorce rate of over fifty-three percent. It bothers me that the divorce rate in Nigeria is high. But what bothers me most is that majority of the forty-three percent that are not yet divorced are suffering in their marriage. Since there is no perfect relationship because there is no perfect people. Many are frustrated and unhappy in their marriages. And the divorce rate increases with each new day.
The questions now are:
Why is it that some experience delay in marriages and disappointment? while some get married without stress?
Why is it that some brothers & sisters have several suitors while some don’t have any at all?
Why is it that some relationships end up before marriage while some relationships end up in marriage?
Why is it that some married people suffer unhappiness, frustrations, disappointments, separations, and divorce in their marriage while some enjoy their marriages?
Observations
 Attitude – your attitude before marriage we tell of how you will be after marriage.
 Physical appearance – is very important too, because first impression last long.
 Social status – your relation with people, how you talk, eat and handle matters around you will tells on who you will be.
 Good senses of human- express how caring you are & your concerns for others.

Without any iota of doubt, I want you to know that there are secrets to success in relationship. Success in relationships doesn’t come by accident. The knowledge that is required to have success in marriage relationships is hidden. It is a secret. And the bible calls it mystery. Eph 5:31-32 ...... 31 "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife and the two will become one flesh." 32 This is a profound mystery — but I am talking about Christ and the church.
The bible passage above did not only say that marriage is mystery, it says that marriage is a great mystery. That means that the required knowledge that will solve the marital problems in the world is a deep secret. To succeed in your relationship, you need to discover relationship secrets. When a single discovers relationship secrets, not only will the person be empowered to encounter his or her right spouse, his or her relationship will blossom and end up in marriage. When a married person learns relationship secrets, his or her marriage will become blissful. Knowledge of the relationship secrets also has the capacity to reconcile a broken marriage.
Knowledge is power! When you acquire the right knowledge, you will be empowered to achieve what you cannot ordinarily achieve.